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We may not be the most typical couple, as hubby is happily endowed but we enjoy the game and the fantasies. She loves to dominate her man. Thanks for visiting, and we appreciate any and all feedback.
As you embrace you inner FemDom with your actions, just as important to use the right language. Men need to be disciplined and trained, and you can do this through the physical acts of a FemDom relationship, but it truly will not become real, until you learn to use your language consistently.
The words that come out of your mouth have lasting impact on the psyche of the male, sometimes more than the actions you are performing. Doing one without the other is fine, but if you want to truly get into the mind of the sub and make him your obedient bitch, then you need to truly understand his inner desires to not only submit to you, but to feel completely owned by you.
There are different levels of this, and it is tremendous fun. For hubby and I, this is his place but for those that read our blog, you know it’s respectful and loving, not grossly demeaning, or at least not given and received that way. We play roles in our relationship, and from a partnership standpoint there is only one Domme, and that is Mistress K. hubby has learned to welcome and thank me for it, and with that comes a stronger reinforcement in our roles and relationship.
Regular Daily Speak
It is perfectly normal for you to wish to be polite to your man, after all he is changing his life around so much to focus his attention and service to you, so this is completely natural. However, you should refrain from using some of these polite words, (at least when you are alone with him).
Here are 2 words you should completely remove from your vocabulary to your submissive male.
Thank you, and please.
If you want to use these in the presence of your children, or other people, then fine, but try and EXPECT compliance with all things requested from him. If you EXPECT compliance, then there is no need to say please or thank you. It is simply his role to be obedient to you, and out of respect, you should get used to it. This is one of the greatest perks for the woman in a FemDom relationship.
Replace “please” with “now”.
Instead of “Honey, can you please take the garbage out?”
Replace with “Honey, take the garbage out now”
Once you get in the habit of this, it will become easier, and his response time should be measured, and he should be punished if he is does not react quickly enough. Tease, denial, chastity, and sex are wonderful tools for training. Training your partner/sub to obey your will means speaking in a tone that shows you expect him to do this, and right away. Him not complying quickly should lead to punishment.
When it comes to what you expect from him when he speaks, it is a completely different story though. He is to always use words like please, thank you, Yes Ma’am, Yes, Mistress (or other title you dictate) and to be polite and respectful at all times.
This means, that you can also train him to speak to you better through your own language to him.
Positively Confirm Tasks.
A very effective way of really getting a man turned on by your authority is for you to tell him to confirm before he performs your task. This may sound a little odd to you, but it is really powerful for the male sub to hear you say things like:
“Honey take the garbage out now?” and then when he goes to take it out, while he is taking the bag out of the garbage can, say something like:
“What do you say?” with an expecting devilish grin on your face, the only correct response from him is “Yes Ma’am”
You see how this works?
Instead of thanking him for taking the garbage out, in the end, he needs to be respectful acknowledging your dominance.
Learn how to make this work for you in almost every task you delegate to him. He will learn to associate your authority with him doing chores, and he will be better, faster, and more compliant doing them. You will feel more and more satisfied that your training is working so efficiently by using this kind of language on him.
For the next several weeks, make a very conscious effort of speaking to him this way as much as you can comfortably for the situations and people around. Gauge his response and react accordingly. If he hates it when you do this in front of other people, but loves it alone, then respect this.
In the bedroom
This is where you really can have long lasting impacts on how he is out of the bedroom with not only the things you do to him, but specifically the things you say to him.
When you combine highly dominant acts where he is in a very submissive WILLING state, this is the time to show him the sexy Domme you are and train him to be whatever you want him to be.
Example of how to speak to you sub in specific instances in the bedroom.
When you want him to orally satisfy you, instead of “Honey can you please go down on me” say “Darling, get down here and start licking”. Grab his head and force his head into your pussy, and before he gets started say, What do you say?
At this point, “Yes, Ma’am” or “Yes, My Queen” appropriate.
Take what you learned outside of the bedroom and turn it around that so all of your sexual pleasure he is to absolutely to respect you for being allowed.
Strapon, Stepping it UP Once
If you are into Strapon play, this is one of the best opportunities for your subby/submissive, and he desires what you say much more than what he desires. (pegged by your Strapon). Remember, this is psychological reinforcement and physical reinforcement. He may feel vulnerable, silly, and a bit embarrassed. This is what he wants to feel more than the sensations of you riding him like your personal bitch.
Put your Strapon at the edge of his asshole, and ask “What do you say?”
At this point, don’t be happy with please, make him say things that truly shows he wants your authority.
Make him beg for it. Say “Beg me for it”. If he resists, keep it up, rubbing it against his lubed anal cavity and say that if he wants you to dominate him, he must beg for it.
Be a good little bitch and say fuck me harder. That’s right take it. Take it deeper. That’s it, good gurl.
That’s right, you are my bitch. I own you. You WILL do whatever I say from now on. Take my cock. Take it all and say thank you. What are you? Are you my little bitch? Do you like it when I fuck your ass?
Realize now that from now on, you will be my bitch. You will serve me whatever I want when I want it. I want to hear you moaning like a bitch as I pound your hole. I am your Domme and you are my bitch.
Forced Bisexual, Stepping it UP Twice
It’s one thing to practice with a dildo or strap-on, but at some point you should have him suck another man’s cock in front of you. This can be arranged as a surprise, and you will need at least someone’s help…another submissive or just a bi-friendly person. You should have him restrained in a cage, his cock is NOT getting sucked.
You will obviously need to plan for this, and it is much better if done in the comfort in our own home.
And the reality, there is nothing wrong with him sucking a real cock. It can be an act of pleasure and service. Even if this is a once in a lifetime isolated event, the psychological impact of your authority in enforcing him to suck another man’s cock for real is enormous.
First of all, you are showing him your authority and that you are willing to take him to limits he never thought you were capable of…in the long term this will prove to be extremely valuable because he will always fear your authority knowing you are capable of making him do even extreme things. In addition, you are enforcing and acknowledging him as a sort of “sissy”, and doing that in front of you will be both humiliating and stimulating to him.
You will need to involve either another openly gay or bi sexual guy. You should acknowledge to your hubby/submissive really seems to enjoy it while he is sucking the cock. Give him pointers, positive reinforcement, and make sure he understands he will suck your stud to completion and only stop when your stud cums in his mouth. Force him to make eye contact with you AND the stud his is sucking.
Over all it is extremely important that you show him you are ENJOYING watching this and that YOU are FORCING him to do it. Part of his enjoyment will be the feeling of being forced against his will, and you must make him believe you absolutely love to see him do it. Try it, you both may like it!!
Afterwards, present him with a set of sissy panties. This is a moment to remember, and a moment you will make sure you use to your advantage. If his is blindfolded, this is a photo opportunity… take pictures or video of him while he is blindfolded and keep it them to show him later, next time you have him locked up. With pictures in your hands, he will obey whatever you ask of him forever.
Dominating and Confirming Questions
Your hubby/sub wants to feel owned. As your submissive, he wants you love him, but to he also wants you to degrade him.
This psychology is vital and key to a successful domination/submissive relationship.
It does not mean he is gay (but you can taunt him with it), or that you must sissify him, it simply alters his psyche to be more appreciate of you the dominate. You cannot truly get your hubby/submissive to submit to you until you have turned the tables on him completely.
This is a true transfer of power, and your relationship will be much better for it.
Doing acts is fine if that’s all you want. If this is all pretend for you, this is fine too. However, you might find that when you do this, and it becomes real, that you might just stir up incredible emotions and feelings that have been buried for a long time.
As a FemDom Women can be beautiful with an obedient subservient man.
As always Happy Fetish!
Follow us if you love Hotwife, Domination, Pegging, Humiliation, Sissification and Forced<sic> Bi. Only the best in videos, and pics. No Gifs or Captions.
Tell us if you enjoy our blog, we are a married, experimental, open, couple in a Hotwife/Femdom relationship in Charlotte, NC, USA, always looking to explore with others. Drop us a note and let us know what is own your mind.
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As you embrace you inner FemDom with your actions, just as important to use the right language. Men need to be disciplined and trained, and you can do this through the physical acts of a FemDom relationship, but it truly will not become real, until you learn to use your language consistently.
The words that come out of your mouth have lasting impact on the psyche of the male, sometimes more than the actions you are performing. Doing one without the other is fine, but if you want to truly get into the mind of the sub and make him your obedient bitch, then you need to truly understand his inner desires to not only submit to you, but to feel completely owned by you.
There are different levels of this, and it is tremendous fun. For hubby and I, this is his place but for those that read our blog, you know it’s respectful and loving, not grossly demeaning, or at least not given and received that way. We play roles in our relationship, and from a partnership standpoint there is only one Domme, and that is Mistress K. hubby has learned to welcome and thank me for it, and with that comes a stronger reinforcement in our roles and relationship.
Regular Daily Speak
It is perfectly normal for you to wish to be polite to your man, after all he is changing his life around so much to focus his attention and service to you, so this is completely natural. However, you should refrain from using some of these polite words, (at least when you are alone with him).
Here are 2 words you should completely remove from your vocabulary to your submissive male.
Thank you, and please.
If you want to use these in the presence of your children, or other people, then fine, but try and EXPECT compliance with all things requested from him. If you EXPECT compliance, then there is no need to say please or thank you. It is simply his role to be obedient to you, and out of respect, you should get used to it. This is one of the greatest perks for the woman in a FemDom relationship.
Replace “please” with “now”.
Instead of “Honey, can you please take the garbage out?”
Replace with “Honey, take the garbage out now”
Once you get in the habit of this, it will become easier, and his response time should be measured, and he should be punished if he is does not react quickly enough. Tease, denial, chastity, and sex are wonderful tools for training. Training your partner/sub to obey your will means speaking in a tone that shows you expect him to do this, and right away. Him not complying quickly should lead to punishment.
When it comes to what you expect from him when he speaks, it is a completely different story though. He is to always use words like please, thank you, Yes Ma’am, Yes, Mistress (or other title you dictate) and to be polite and respectful at all times.
This means, that you can also train him to speak to you better through your own language to him.
Positively Confirm Tasks.
A very effective way of really getting a man turned on by your authority is for you to tell him to confirm before he performs your task. This may sound a little odd to you, but it is really powerful for the male sub to hear you say things like:
“Honey take the garbage out now?” and then when he goes to take it out, while he is taking the bag out of the garbage can, say something like:
“What do you say?” with an expecting devilish grin on your face, the only correct response from him is “Yes Ma’am”
You see how this works?
Instead of thanking him for taking the garbage out, in the end, he needs to be respectful acknowledging your dominance.
Learn how to make this work for you in almost every task you delegate to him. He will learn to associate your authority with him doing chores, and he will be better, faster, and more compliant doing them. You will feel more and more satisfied that your training is working so efficiently by using this kind of language on him.
For the next several weeks, make a very conscious effort of speaking to him this way as much as you can comfortably for the situations and people around. Gauge his response and react accordingly. If he hates it when you do this in front of other people, but loves it alone, then respect this.
In the bedroom
This is where you really can have long lasting impacts on how he is out of the bedroom with not only the things you do to him, but specifically the things you say to him.
When you combine highly dominant acts where he is in a very submissive WILLING state, this is the time to show him the sexy Domme you are and train him to be whatever you want him to be.
Example of how to speak to you sub in specific instances in the bedroom.
When you want him to orally satisfy you, instead of “Honey can you please go down on me” say “Darling, get down here and start licking”. Grab his head and force his head into your pussy, and before he gets started say, What do you say?
At this point, “Yes, Ma’am” or “Yes, My Queen” appropriate.
Take what you learned outside of the bedroom and turn it around that so all of your sexual pleasure he is to absolutely to respect you for being allowed.
Strapon, Stepping it UP Once
If you are into Strapon play, this is one of the best opportunities for your subby/submissive, and he desires what you say much more than what he desires. (pegged by your Strapon). Remember, this is psychological reinforcement and physical reinforcement. He may feel vulnerable, silly, and a bit embarrassed. This is what he wants to feel more than the sensations of you riding him like your personal bitch.
Put your Strapon at the edge of his asshole, and ask “What do you say?”
At this point, don’t be happy with please, make him say things that truly shows he wants your authority.
Make him beg for it. Say “Beg me for it”. If he resists, keep it up, rubbing it against his lubed anal cavity and say that if he wants you to dominate him, he must beg for it.
Be a good little bitch and say fuck me harder. That’s right take it. Take it deeper. That’s it, good gurl.
That’s right, you are my bitch. I own you. You WILL do whatever I say from now on. Take my cock. Take it all and say thank you. What are you? Are you my little bitch? Do you like it when I fuck your ass?
Realize now that from now on, you will be my bitch. You will serve me whatever I want when I want it. I want to hear you moaning like a bitch as I pound your hole. I am your Domme and you are my bitch.
Forced Bisexual, Stepping it UP Twice
It’s one thing to practice with a dildo or strap-on, but at some point you should have him suck another man’s cock in front of you. This can be arranged as a surprise, and you will need at least someone’s help…another submissive or just a bi-friendly person. You should have him restrained in a cage, his cock is NOT getting sucked.
You will obviously need to plan for this, and it is much better if done in the comfort in our own home.
And the reality, there is nothing wrong with him sucking a real cock. It can be an act of pleasure and service. Even if this is a once in a lifetime isolated event, the psychological impact of your authority in enforcing him to suck another man’s cock for real is enormous.
First of all, you are showing him your authority and that you are willing to take him to limits he never thought you were capable of…in the long term this will prove to be extremely valuable because he will always fear your authority knowing you are capable of making him do even extreme things. In addition, you are enforcing and acknowledging him as a sort of “sissy”, and doing that in front of you will be both humiliating and stimulating to him.
You will need to involve either another openly gay or bi sexual guy. You should acknowledge to your hubby/submissive really seems to enjoy it while he is sucking the cock. Give him pointers, positive reinforcement, and make sure he understands he will suck your stud to completion and only stop when your stud cums in his mouth. Force him to make eye contact with you AND the stud his is sucking.
Over all it is extremely important that you show him you are ENJOYING watching this and that YOU are FORCING him to do it. Part of his enjoyment will be the feeling of being forced against his will, and you must make him believe you absolutely love to see him do it. Try it, you both may like it!!
Afterwards, present him with a set of sissy panties. This is a moment to remember, and a moment you will make sure you use to your advantage. If his is blindfolded, this is a photo opportunity… take pictures or video of him while he is blindfolded and keep it them to show him later, next time you have him locked up. With pictures in your hands, he will obey whatever you ask of him forever.
Dominating and Confirming Questions
Your hubby/sub wants to feel owned. As your submissive, he wants you love him, but to he also wants you to degrade him.
This psychology is vital and key to a successful domination/submissive relationship.
It does not mean he is gay (but you can taunt him with it), or that you must sissify him, it simply alters his psyche to be more appreciate of you the dominate. You cannot truly get your hubby/submissive to submit to you until you have turned the tables on him completely.
This is a true transfer of power, and your relationship will be much better for it.
Doing acts is fine if that’s all you want. If this is all pretend for you, this is fine too. However, you might find that when you do this, and it becomes real, that you might just stir up incredible emotions and feelings that have been buried for a long time.
As a FemDom Women can be beautiful with an obedient subservient man.
As always Happy Fetish!
Follow us if you love Hotwife, Domination, Pegging, Humiliation, Sissification and Forced<sic> Bi. Only the best in videos, and pics. No Gifs or Captions.
Tell us if you enjoy our blog, we are a married, experimental, open, couple in a Hotwife/Femdom relationship in Charlotte, NC, USA, always looking to explore with others. Drop us a note and let us know what is own your mind.
Mistress K đź’‹ & hubby